Sex isn't just vaginal intercourse. Sex is any number of combinations of things people of all stripes do together to seek mutual sexual pleasure, and what those things or that combination are varies for everyone, even from day to day. So, on a given day, Lesbian Couple A may want to engage in some mutual masturbation and some oral sexwhile Lesbian Couple B may choose to engage in shared manual sex and genital massage mixed in with some role play, and Lesbian Couple C may decide to do some big-time snuggling paired with strap-on play.
Second of all, each one of us is responsible for getting our own needs met—including our sexual needs. You are responsible for getting your needs and yourself off. No one likes to be told no when all they want to do is have sex with the person they care about.
By Petra Boynton. I am a 23 year old lesbian. For the last two, sex certainly hasn't been the same.
While in discussions with friends, we will happily chat in great detail about our sex lives. Despite this, the taboo of lesbian sex continues to be prevalent. If you are a lady thinking about having sex with a woman for the first time, a man who gets seriously turned on by lesbian sex, or are just plain curious as to how it all works, rest assured that you are not alone.
Sex in long-term relationships is often presented as a conflict between reluctant wives and their horny husbands. But looking at sex amongst lesbians in long-term relationships exposes a different story about female sexuality and libido. Enter sociologist Pepper Schwartz.
Do you want to have great lesbian sex? What is something you can do for your lover that will really turn her on? Here is a letter I received from someone who wanted to know what she could do to really satisfy her lover.
Lesbians know about chick stuff and women parts, right? Not the full picture. Their sex lives can teach you a lot about your relationship with your man.
I remember overhearing a woman ask another woman this in a downtown Manhattan coffee shop when I was a little kid. I was maybe 10 years old, but I totally got what she was saying and totally agreed, silently, in my head. I was in the "Gay Straight Alliance" at that time, and we took a field trip to a liberal arts university for the event.
But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist based in San Francisco, to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off-limits, and all askers remain anonymous. I saw your article about the best positions for female orgasmand I was hoping you could write a similar version for lesbians.