Everyone has one, and very useful they are too. Did you realise that your bottom also has the potential to give you incredible pleasure, as well as a mere sigh of relief any time you sit down? You can let out that sigh of relief now.
This is the first in a multi-part series from After Hours about anal play. You can see the other posts in the series as they come out here. The main areas you want to be aware of are the anuswhich is the gateway to the pleasure zone, the anal canaland the rectum.
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I first wondered about how to prepare for anal sex when I was in college. I was 21, an age when everything is sort of do-or-die, especially regarding love. I had a couple of friends who had tried anal sex, but I judged them ruthlessly for it. Anal sex was something I decided I would just never, ever do.
You can touch my butt, but not the hole. Just anal messing around. Defining our terms seemed important, since these are genres of sex that people get extremely touchy about, so to speak.
For many people, anal sex is the true final frontier. We associate the butt with, well, poop, and for most of us poop is SO not erotic. The other big thing we associate with anal sex?
Amazingly, a lot of people assume as a former sex worker, I somehow had to give A-Levels. Still, you know what they say about assumption — it makes an ass out of you and toxic masculinity. I was amazed at how many times I had to tell someone to leave because, as I was going in, something else was coming out.
In fact, the majority of anal sexers are not gay men, as sex scholar Justin Lehmiller has pointed out. The recent increase in the popularity of anal sex among virtually every demo makes total sense. Sure, humans have always had assholes but only recently have they been been able to casually browse through an array of insertables and other accoutrements and have them discreetly delivered to their home the following day. If you want to jump on the A-train or make your version of anal sex better, consider the following.
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But it can also be pretty intimidating for first timers, which is why we tapped experts for their advice on how to get started—and how to get the most out of it. Here's what they have to say. For starters, the anal region is rich in sensitive nerve endings that can make it a pleasure gold mine. And since the tissue between the rectum and vagina is so thin, sometimes anal pressure stimulates the front wall of the vagina, where the G-spot is.